Fake It 'Till You Make It

At times, the only choice between faking it until you make it is pure insanity. Doing the same thing over and over hoping for a different result would drive anyone mad.

I could not get this particular thought out my head and I couldn’t understand why my feelings weren’t reciprocated. I found myself often times in a boxing match with my feelings. The more I swung, the more I tried to annihilate my feelings, the more pronounced they became.

I was having one of the many moments I have where I was thinking aloud and speaking my life “as if…” Speaking your life “as if…” means to speak and live your life as if xyz occurred. So in my case, I’ve spoken as if I were confident. I would dress, speak, and walk if I were confident and in this way, I was able to see how the same world I used to view through the eyes of someone with low self-esteem, dramatically changed for me.

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